3/11/05
Just last night I shared with 3 other people in 2 separate emails my thoughts about the place of Paul Wakfer in my life. Today I decided that I would like everyone to know them. Here is what I wrote:
"Paul is the person who is most important in my life - who I admire and respect more than anyone I know. He is the person with whom I want to spend the most time, to do the most things, to share the most pleasures, and endure the pains that can't be avoided. He is the person from whom I've learned the most in my adult life so far and from whom I envision at this point to gain the most from. He is the person for whom I would do the most to bring happiness since it would bring me the greatest long-term amount also. His being the desired fixture in my life creates my most smiles and highest joy... even my most tears and deepest unhappiness - brief in both cases. I wouldn't want it any other way for his presence in my life gives it more value than it ever had before."
As is done with most our emails, we read each other's (even after discussing them) so that we know and understand and can be helpful to the other in expressing ideas. Therefore Paul read the above and entered his own comment - often done as a regular practice - and without altering a word.
"[Paul] Of course, I already know this, but seeing it written so beautifully still moved me almost to tears."
We let each other know in words and actions how much each means to the other. We celebrate our love mentally and physically in numerous ways every day. And it never gets stale even though we spend our entire days together doing all the many things to which we devote attention.
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